It’s once again time for me to get political! If you haven’t heard the news, well now you have, and you’ll keep hearing about it on tonight’s news as well as tomorrow’s I’m sure. The state of California’s Supreme Court (the majority of whom were republican appointed) struck down the ban on gay marriage in the state, which voters approved in 2000.

Of course while I’m happy about the news, it also has me worried. In New Jersey our courts and legislature are pretty much set to rule that their “civil union” compromise to marriage here has pretty much been a failure all around. However the governor refuses do this during an election year. Why? Obviously because the republicans would use it against him and any other democrats.

That of course is what has me worried, this has come in an election year. I have NO doubt, NONE at all that the republicans and McCain will use this as a wedge issue. There are many conservatives out there that do not like McCain at all because of some of his policies and stances, so I have no doubt this is something he can use to reach out to them. Frankly it worked before and I’m sure it will work again. I just feel this doesn’t bode well for the democrats, who in my opinion have already shot themselves in the foot as is with the whole superdelegate thing and Obama versus Hillary debate.

Back to California, it’s still not a done deal. There will be challenges, there is already talk of going to the Supreme Court (who always seems to reject hearing these cases saying it’s up the the states to decide). There is also a move to have a gay marriage ban put on the ballot there in November, one that this time would put it in the state’s constitution. If that happens I hope a large portion of gays and lesbians in California would consider leaving the state. Could you imagine what would happen to Hollywood if all the make-up artists, hairdressers, clothing designers and not to mention closeted actors just left the state? Movies and TV shows would end up shutting down! It would be like the writer’s strike, but possibly forever for some.

I am also hoping for the day when someone in either a state or the US senate will have the guts to introduce their own “marriage protection” bills. These ones however would serve to protect marriage from further being destroyed by those who can marry. I mean if people are so gung-ho on “protecting marriage” then where are the bills to ban divorce? How about making spousal abuse, verbal, mental AND physical punishable by prison time? Let’s also send adulterers to prison. You have to wait 7 days to buy a hand-gun, how about a marriage waiting period as well? Of course nobody would have the guts to introduce these bills, because they infringe on the rights of the majority, who would no doubt go apeshiz over them.

3 Replies to “Gay Marriage In California”

  1. If marriage became available in New Jersey would you and the BF
    get hitched?

    When Portland was doing gay marriage a few years back
    we drove down from Seattle and did it. They reversed it not long after
    but we have the certificate on the wall, still wear the rings and
    refer to each other as husband.

    Its something to think about.

  2. We’ll face that when and if it comes lol. Right now we have civil unions, but I really refuse to do that unless there is some legal issue and we have to, because I don’t believe in it or that it’s right. Nobody in our society grows up dreaming of getting “unionized.”

  3. Actually, here in CT. we do have a law that can send adulterers to prison. I remember in the early 90s two separate couples discovered the “blue law” that was still on the books, and sent their respective spouses to prison. The courts didn’t really have a choice, though they thought it was stupid; it was the law, so they had to do it. One couple got back together after the spouse got out of prison. The other couple (more naturally to my way of thinking), didn’t.

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